How Burning Bridges Can Set You On Fire

I got high a couple days ago.it tunnel vision, one-track mind, or whatever. They
No, it didn't involve Colombian herbs, bongs, or thebecome experts at burning bridges.
munchies. I didn't sit and stare at my hand for 20Burning bridges leaves you with no other option but to
minutes. But I felt like I could do anything. Let mesucceed, Like Alexander the Great when he burned all
explain.of his army's ships, to ensure there would be no
My wife and I took one of our cars to a localretreat. His men would either be victorious or they
dealership to sell it. When we stepped onto the lot, Iwould die. They won. It's called commitment.
immediately felt defensive. I've seen places like thisBeing committed doesn't mean you won't fail. It does
before, and if you're not careful, these shifty-eyedmean that when you fall on your face, you'll pick your
piranhas will eat you alive. But I was shocked . . .bloodied self back up, guns a-blazin'. It means you're
My demeanor changed completely when a youngoptimistic enough to see failure as an opportunity to
man named Roger walked up and introduced himself.learn how not to achieve your goals. It means that
He asked us questions . . . What were we looking for?regardless of what happens to you, you'll continue to
Where did we live? Do we have any kids?look for ways to get what you want.
It wasn't so much what he asked, but that you couldCommitted people don't look back, second guess
tell he was genuinely interested in us. Well, that, or hethemselves, or look for shortcuts. They know they've
was playing his role extremely well.got to pay a price to get where they want to go.
I found his optimism contagious. He was sureThey continually educate themselves.
something good was going to happen for us today,They understand that applied knowledge and
and he was going to do all he could to make sure of it.consistent action are the keys to realizing their dreams.
At least that's how he made me feel.They won't veer from their chosen path.
At that point, I think I would have bought almostCommitment does not mean wishing or hoping.
anything from him, and at any price. He was that good.Pipedreams and idle talk are for losers. The truly
I felt empowered and important. But that's not all.successful know that dreams are important, but
We sold the car that day, and we were happy aboutplanning and doing make these dreams reality.
it. But that wasn't the best part. My hands tingledAs for Roger the car salesman, it came as no surprise
slightly, and I felt a smile on my face. Selling the carto me to find out that he was the top salesman on the
became an afterthought. I wanted to know Roger'slot. I've no doubt this young man will go far in life.
magic. How did he make customers feel soYou will too if you decide to act, then take action.
comfortable?Burning bridges pushes you onward, away from your
According to Brian Tracy, "Ambitious people dream bigtoxic comfort zone.
dreams and the only behavior they accept fromLimit your options. Accept nothing short of greatness.
themselves is to make those dreams come true." Call