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How to Get Your Staff to Bend Over Backwards for You No Matter What

The constant struggle to get people to wantthe views and ideas of the recipient, then he
to work for you is an enigma most businesscan design something that will elicit a reach
owners wrestle with. I have isolated- a call or an order, etc. This principle
successful methods through growing myalso applies to employees. "American Mary"
multi-million dollar company from the groundcould not work with a certain person in my
up. In my experience it all comes down tocompany because he would not tolerate her
how you want to be treated. I was raised inslowness. He couldn't or wouldn't understand
a lovey-dovey family where my parents wantedwhat it was like to be her. So, he barked
me to feel great about myself. Maybe it ishis orders as fast as he usually did and he
because I was raised Jewish and all Jewishgot nowhere. On the other hand, I would just
mothers think their children are superior -"Be" her. I'd slow it down, be really kind,
who knows... Whatever the reason, I grew upmaybe draw a map for her even if she had been
hearing and believing I could dothere five times before...and she would do
anything.That kind of confidence instilled inanything for me. And she'd make sure she'd
me led me to believe that I could instilldo a perfect job if she knew it was for me.
that confidence in others. When I firstEven today, she still calls me from Europe
started out I could not afford to hireevery now and then just to say hello.Ask Not
expensive help and found the most successfulWhat I Can Do For You...It all comes down to
type of personnel for my business were young,the point of exchanging properly with an
inexperienced adults in their late teens thatemployee; and that's a tough one to balance.
had an abundance of willingness. And I doThe person has to bring in a return to the
mean an abundance of it - in my viewpoint,company. With my employees and my
there is no better commodity.A Little Bitexecutives, I start at what I can afford to
Goes a Long WayMy Senior Vice President overpay them. I provide them an atmosphere where
Operations and Quality Control who nowthey can prosper by giving them the freedom
manages six other executives and a colossalto do the job themselves - always observing
number of employees was only 19 years oldthat they have the willingness as the biggest
when she started with me. Now she is 27.factor. In the initial interview process, I
She had that willingness, but virtually notell them the truth: "I expect the world.
experience. I recall then that she wantedYou are expected to give 110% and take pride
$10.00 per hour. I would only give her $9.00in a job well done. You give to me first and
but I gave her an incentive - to prove to methen I'll exchange back with you." And I do.
she was worth it before I consented to thatI demand a lot. And when they deliver and
kind of pay (which was a lot of money to mego above and beyond what I expect, I give
at the time). She did so well that I gaveback to them over and above what they expect.
her $11.50 per hour within two weeks of herIt's that circle of life concept I was
hire date.That little bit extra that I didtalking about earlier.Another example of how
went a long way. She took notice and sheto apply this is to spread their accolades
consistently proved to me that she could dothrough word of mouth. I don't ever plan
even more. That was the first time I noticedthis; I just may be talking to my PR about
that rewarding your employees for hard workone of my designers and I just say how great
really paid off. Today, she makes athat designer is doing - and guess what?
six-figure income and earns every penny.INext thing you know that designer has heard
love to validate and reward the staff - it isabout it. That really does something for the
a driving force of mine in my company. Weperson you are praising. They know you think
have an "employee of the month" that getsthey are great at their job and that really
company recognition and a designated parkingmakes them want to work even harder for
space as well as an "employee of the year"you.Loyalty Pays OffThe President of my
that gets a three-day trip to the Big Apple,company, Jennifer Custer, is a gem. I recall
plus spending money. Not to mention theone day her mother asking me what the gross
runner up gets no short shrift. And myincome was for the week. She said she wanted
employees work their tails off for thoseto know so she could predict what kind of
coveted prizes, but mainly for the pride theyweekend she was going to have. I didn't
feel after doing so well. The stipulationsunderstand - what did this have to do with
are that they go above and beyond the call ofher weekend? I found out; Jenn was not fun
duty and really set great examples for theto be around when the company's revenue was
rest of the group. I've never seen suchdown. I learned from her mother that she
stellar work from staff at other companieswanted so badly to make it, for me and the
that don't acknowledge and don't reward - Icompany, that when she did not, she really
know because I used to work at them.Morefelt down. I never thought that she wore her
Freedom = More ResponsibilityA major factorduties that personally.To instill that kind
in increasing the responsibility level of theof loyalty you have to be loyal. When
employees is giving them more freedom andsomebody flows me a lot of help in a
responsibility. If you do, they will ownparticular area, I never forget it, I never
their position. The best employees are thosedisconnect from that. I have someone that
that really take ownership of their positionwas with me that has been with me from the
and run it like it was their very ownbeginning. She was a "Doubting Thomas" and
company. You may think that it is a bitwould comment behind my back that I "sure had
precarious to let someone run their area likea big pipe dream in regards to growing the
it was their own company because what if theycompany." But she was really good at her
took it way off course from what you hadpost - her division does a lot of production
designed where that organization would go?in that area and she runs it well. They are
Well, I found that the more freedom I gave myresult driven and have deadlines that would
executives to do the job the way they thoughteven try the patience of Job. It would have
it should be done based on theirbeen hard to replace her, plus she had been
understanding of the company's goals, theywith me so long. Once my President found out
became even better at what they did. Thatthat she was negating my dreams to others,
really opened my eyes. It was like theshe addressed it and that person never did it
circle of life - they would do better andagain. But I never held onto that as a
better to warrant the responsibility I hadgrudge. In fact, I ended up giving her a
given them.Another manager of mine is a greatraise above what her position was worth in
example of this. When she first came to workour geographical area. In my opinion, she
for me, she didn't necessarily make me feelhad warranted it - the good she constantly
confident that she could do the job - but shedid surely outweighed her verbal negativity.
sure was willing. And I have a philosophyShe was with me a long time and truly
about just throwing them in and seeing ifdeveloped her area. I never disconnected
they can make it go right or die trying.Shefrom her because she helped me, despite her
impressed me. She did a great job over andverbal transgression. Not only did she make
over again. I couldn't help but acknowledgeamends for what she has ever said about me,
and validate her. She was only 18 years oldshe would never naysay me or my company
when she started working for me and I was soagain, and now she'll probably never leave
amazed how well she did her job - she wasme. So always take a look at what the staff
neat, tidy, systematic and never mademember DOES (as opposed to says), regardless
mistakes - so I told her how great she wasof the apparency.Lastly, I think it's
all the time. The end result? This shy girlimportant and warrants mentioning that I want
just blossomed into one of my fifteenmy employees to enjoy their time here at
executives who has several subordinates andwork. I've had a few jobs where I hated
runs a tight ship.So, I learned that the waygoing in to work in the morning and couldn't
I should treat people is the way I like beingwait until the end of the day. Although I've
and have been treated. I know it's thelearned that ultimately I am responsible for
Golden Rule that many of us have heard ormy condition in life - at work and at home -
read, but I learned to apply this in regardsI could also notice things that existed in
to staff and it works well for me. I grew upthe workplace that were surely less than
knowing that it works from the recipient end.optimum. I wished that there was some person
I used it later in business and learned howto tell, someone that would listen and be
much it really empowers others when you tellable to do something about it. You need to
them they can - it becomes instinctive.make sure that your executives and employees
Application of that in the corporate worldknow you are their friend and know that you
brings out the natural abilities of thegenuinely care about them. You will build a
people you bestow that confidence in. Theirjuggernaut like I have and your executives
abilities really start to shine through.Iwill carry forward your ideals to the rest of
remember another girl that worked in myyour crew.Joy Gendusa founded PostcardMania
company in the early days. We'll call herin 1998, her only assets a computer and a
"American Mary" (she chose that nicknamephone. By 2005 the company did over $12
herself) even though that's not her name.million in sales, employed over 100 people
She wasn't a real fast duplicator or speedyand made Inc. Magazine's prestigious Inc 500
at comprehending; but I learned that if IList as the one of the 500 fastest growing
wanted to work with her, I had to, incompanies in the nation. She attributes her
essence, "Be" her. Incidentally, a marketingexplosive growth to her ability to choose
principle that helps a graphic designerincredible staff and her innate marketing
attain a better idea of what kind of designsavvy. As an Expert Author, she is always
will "pull" (get responses) for a totallywilling to share her marketing advice through
alien industry to that said designer is toarticles, interviews and speaking
learn to "Be" the recipient of the directengagements.
mail piece. Once someone learns to assume



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