How to Get Your Staff to Bend Over Backwards for You No Matter What

The constant struggle to get people to want to worksomething that will elicit a reach - a call or an order, etc.
for you is an enigma most business owners wrestleThis principle also applies to employees. "American
with. I have isolated successful methods throughMary" could not work with a certain person in my
growing my multi-million dollar company from thecompany because he would not tolerate her slowness.
ground up. In my experience it all comes down to howHe couldn't or wouldn't understand what it was like to
you want to be treated. I was raised in a lovey-doveybe her. So, he barked his orders as fast as he usually
family where my parents wanted me to feel greatdid and he got nowhere. On the other hand, I would
about myself. Maybe it is because I was raised Jewishjust "Be" her. I'd slow it down, be really kind, maybe
and all Jewish mothers think their children are superior -draw a map for her even if she had been there five
who knows... Whatever the reason, I grew up hearingtimes before...and she would do anything for me. And
and believing I could do anything.That kind ofshe'd make sure she'd do a perfect job if she knew it
confidence instilled in me led me to believe that I couldwas for me. Even today, she still calls me from Europe
instill that confidence in others. When I first started out Ievery now and then just to say hello.Ask Not What I
could not afford to hire expensive help and found theCan Do For You...It all comes down to the point of
most successful type of personnel for my businessexchanging properly with an employee; and that's a
were young, inexperienced adults in their late teenstough one to balance. The person has to bring in a
that had an abundance of willingness. And I do meanreturn to the company. With my employees and my
an abundance of it - in my viewpoint, there is no betterexecutives, I start at what I can afford to pay them. I
commodity.A Little Bit Goes a Long WayMy Seniorprovide them an atmosphere where they can prosper
Vice President over Operations and Quality Controlby giving them the freedom to do the job themselves -
who now manages six other executives and aalways observing that they have the willingness as the
colossal number of employees was only 19 years oldbiggest factor. In the initial interview process, I tell them
when she started with me. Now she is 27. She hadthe truth: "I expect the world. You are expected to
that willingness, but virtually no experience. I recall thengive 110% and take pride in a job well done. You give
that she wanted $10.00 per hour. I would only give herto me first and then I'll exchange back with you." And I
$9.00 but I gave her an incentive - to prove to me shedo. I demand a lot. And when they deliver and go
was worth it before I consented to that kind of payabove and beyond what I expect, I give back to them
(which was a lot of money to me at the time). She didover and above what they expect. It's that circle of life
so well that I gave her $11.50 per hour within twoconcept I was talking about earlier.Another example of
weeks of her hire date.That little bit extra that I didhow to apply this is to spread their accolades through
went a long way. She took notice and she consistentlyword of mouth. I don't ever plan this; I just may be
proved to me that she could do even more. That wastalking to my PR about one of my designers and I just
the first time I noticed that rewarding your employeessay how great that designer is doing - and guess
for hard work really paid off. Today, she makes awhat? Next thing you know that designer has heard
six-figure income and earns every penny.I love toabout it. That really does something for the person you
validate and reward the staff - it is a driving force ofare praising. They know you think they are great at
mine in my company. We have an "employee of thetheir job and that really makes them want to work
month" that gets company recognition and aeven harder for you.Loyalty Pays OffThe President of
designated parking space as well as an "employee ofmy company, Jennifer Custer, is a gem. I recall one
the year" that gets a three-day trip to the Big Apple,day her mother asking me what the gross income
plus spending money. Not to mention the runner upwas for the week. She said she wanted to know so
gets no short shrift. And my employees work their tailsshe could predict what kind of weekend she was
off for those coveted prizes, but mainly for the pridegoing to have. I didn't understand - what did this have
they feel after doing so well. The stipulations are thatto do with her weekend? I found out; Jenn was not
they go above and beyond the call of duty and reallyfun to be around when the company's revenue was
set great examples for the rest of the group. I'vedown. I learned from her mother that she wanted so
never seen such stellar work from staff at otherbadly to make it, for me and the company, that when
companies that don't acknowledge and don't reward - Ishe did not, she really felt down. I never thought that
know because I used to work at them.More Freedomshe wore her duties that personally.To instill that kind of
= More ResponsibilityA major factor in increasing theloyalty you have to be loyal. When somebody flows
responsibility level of the employees is giving themme a lot of help in a particular area, I never forget it, I
more freedom and responsibility. If you do, they willnever disconnect from that. I have someone that was
own their position. The best employees are those thatwith me that has been with me from the beginning.
really take ownership of their position and run it like itShe was a "Doubting Thomas" and would comment
was their very own company. You may think that it isbehind my back that I "sure had a big pipe dream in
a bit precarious to let someone run their area like itregards to growing the company." But she was really
was their own company because what if they took itgood at her post - her division does a lot of production
way off course from what you had designed wherein that area and she runs it well. They are result driven
that organization would go? Well, I found that the moreand have deadlines that would even try the patience
freedom I gave my executives to do the job the wayof Job. It would have been hard to replace her, plus
they thought it should be done based on theirshe had been with me so long. Once my President
understanding of the company's goals, they becamefound out that she was negating my dreams to others,
even better at what they did. That really opened myshe addressed it and that person never did it again. But
eyes. It was like the circle of life - they would do betterI never held onto that as a grudge. In fact, I ended up
and better to warrant the responsibility I had givengiving her a raise above what her position was worth
them.Another manager of mine is a great example ofin our geographical area. In my opinion, she had
this. When she first came to work for me, she didn'twarranted it - the good she constantly did surely
necessarily make me feel confident that she could dooutweighed her verbal negativity. She was with me a
the job - but she sure was willing. And I have along time and truly developed her area. I never
philosophy about just throwing them in and seeing ifdisconnected from her because she helped me,
they can make it go right or die trying.She impresseddespite her verbal transgression. Not only did she
me. She did a great job over and over again. I couldn'tmake amends for what she has ever said about me,
help but acknowledge and validate her. She was onlyshe would never naysay me or my company again,
18 years old when she started working for me and Iand now she'll probably never leave me. So always
was so amazed how well she did her job - she wastake a look at what the staff member DOES (as
neat, tidy, systematic and never made mistakes - so Iopposed to says), regardless of the apparency.Lastly, I
told her how great she was all the time. The endthink it's important and warrants mentioning that I want
result? This shy girl just blossomed into one of mymy employees to enjoy their time here at work. I've
fifteen executives who has several subordinates andhad a few jobs where I hated going in to work in the
runs a tight ship.So, I learned that the way I should treatmorning and couldn't wait until the end of the day.
people is the way I like being and have been treated. IAlthough I've learned that ultimately I am responsible
know it's the Golden Rule that many of us have heardfor my condition in life - at work and at home - I could
or read, but I learned to apply this in regards to staffalso notice things that existed in the workplace that
and it works well for me. I grew up knowing that itwere surely less than optimum. I wished that there
works from the recipient end. I used it later in businesswas some person to tell, someone that would listen
and learned how much it really empowers othersand be able to do something about it. You need to
when you tell them they can - it becomes instinctive.make sure that your executives and employees know
Application of that in the corporate world brings out theyou are their friend and know that you genuinely care
natural abilities of the people you bestow thatabout them. You will build a juggernaut like I have and
confidence in. Their abilities really start to shine through.Iyour executives will carry forward your ideals to the
remember another girl that worked in my company inrest of your crew.Joy Gendusa founded
the early days. We'll call her "American Mary" (shePostcardMania in 1998, her only assets a computer
chose that nickname herself) even though that's notand a phone. By 2005 the company did over $12 million
her name. She wasn't a real fast duplicator or speedyin sales, employed over 100 people and made Inc.
at comprehending; but I learned that if I wanted toMagazine's prestigious Inc 500 List as the one of the
work with her, I had to, in essence, "Be" her. Incidentally,500 fastest growing companies in the nation. She
a marketing principle that helps a graphic designerattributes her explosive growth to her ability to choose
attain a better idea of what kind of design will "pull" (getincredible staff and her innate marketing savvy. As an
responses) for a totally alien industry to that saidExpert Author, she is always willing to share her
designer is to learn to "Be" the recipient of the directmarketing advice through articles, interviews and
mail piece. Once someone learns to assume the viewsspeaking engagements.
and ideas of the recipient, then he can design